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Don’t try to push it away or ignore it.
Jealousy is a universal emotion. Jealousy can come up any time you are worried about the mere possibility of your partner connecting with someone else. There doesn’t even need to be an actual threat for jealousy to occur,...
Want designer relationships? Want to show up as more of yourself and less of what others might expect, and help your partners do the same? Let's talk about some conversations, actions, and self-reflection that will help us get there.
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Going to a strip club is a great way to expand your erotic life but we have heard from tons of couples who feel a little nervous about it. Even if you've gone before, going as a couple might feel different. In this episode we talk with Elle Stanger, a s*x worker (yes, we have to get creative with...
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Focus on Changing the Rules (Wait, Joli, I thought you weren’t into rules?)
Talking about the big stuff with your partner brings a great opportunity to change the rules in your relationship. Although I don’t love rules-based relationships, most of us ...
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I’ve scoured the earth, the books, the therapists’ offices, the universities, the internet, the gurus…
And I can tell you this: opening your relationship can be complicated.
I’m a HUGE fan of...
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If you’re an online business owner, you’ve probably spent countless hours trying to figure out the best way to bring new leads in the door. When I owned brick and mortar businesses (I owned a couple of different CrossFit gyms) the puzzle was literally about how to...
In season 6, episode 70 of the Project Relationship podcast we talk with Megan Bhatia from the Amory podcast about our different polyamory journeys, our experiences with family as polyamorous people, and parenting outside the monogamous paradigm.
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Advice on Exploring Non-Monogamy
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Although venturing outside of monogamy can feel a bit scary at first, there are so many ways to make it fun! It’s natural to be nervous about trying something new, especially something that flies in the face of what you learned growing up.
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Jealousy is an uncomfortable feeling. But, like other emotions that cause discomfort, jealousy has its own wisdom. Instead of trying to push jealousy away, I’m going to teach you how to embrace it.
Many of us are tempted to label jealousy as a negative emotion instantly....
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What is compersion
Compersion, a term first coined by polyamorists in the 1990s, is a feeling of joy for another person’s joy. Compersion was first meant to describe a feeling of generosity and joy when our romantic partner is experiencing joy with another partner....
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How did we get where we are? What stories do we tell each other (and ourselves) about the decisions that got us here? In season 5, episode 66 of the Project Relationship podcast we dig into how the way we remember and tell our stories affects the way we view our...
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YAY! You’ve decided to join the cool kids and venture outside the monogamy box.
This is going to be fun.
You’re learning new vocab–polyamory, compersion, metamour, polycule. You’ve got a fresh take on what your relationship boundaries are....
