Unruly: The Only Agreements Lab for Relationships that Don't Follow the Rules
A Live, Interactive Workshop with Joli Hamilton, PhD
Because your love doesn't fit a template—and your agreements shouldn't either.
You’ve outgrown the default scripts.
The performative “agreements.” The vague “boundaries.” The unspoken rules that leave everyone guessing and no one satisfied.
Unruly is a workshop for those of us building something deeper—relationships rooted in freedom, safety, and growth—not control or compliance.
If you’ve ever felt like making agreements kills the vibe…
Or like agreements are something you do just to prevent drama instead of build connection…
Let’s rewire that. Together.
What Unruly Offers You:
This is not a one-size-fits-all theory workshop. This is a Lab.
What Unruly Gets You:
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Proven tools that work in your real life, in your real relationships
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Design a Minimum Viable Agreement (MVA) — discover what works, doesn’t work, and why — so you can make better and better agreements
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Uncover clarity around your own needs and wants, so you stop outsourcing your truth
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Break through the chains of restriction with agreements that feel liberating
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Replace the brittle illusion of control with the tactile strength of shared confidence
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Stop agreeing out of feelings of obligation, fear, guilt, or habit and define your own barometers for self-consent so you can stand for what’s right for you (even when it gets tricky!)
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Build a clear, repeatable process so you can make emotionally intelligent agreements that feel nourishing
Unruly is made for people who are:
✔ Moving beyond monogamy, but refusing to trade one rigid system for another
✔ Craving clarity without control
✔ Looking to make relationship choices from a place of sovereignty, not submission
✔ Ready to learn how to make (and keep) agreements that they actually believe in
You don’t have to be in a partnership to attend. This is about how you show up to your agreements—with others and with yourself.
What People Say After They Unravel the Old Way:
💡"I didn’t think agreements could feel like this. Turns out they can be sacred. And sexy. And fun." — Participant in the Birch cohort Year of Opening®
💡"This gave me a whole new framework. It’s not about getting everything ‘right’—it’s about getting real." — Participant in the Aspen cohort of Year of Opening®
💡"We’ve been struggling with agreements for a decade. MVAs made agreements work for us–finally–we’re both showing up in integrity!" — Participant in the Juniper cohort of Year of Opening®
Event Details
📅 Date: August 11, 2025
⏳ Time: 7-10pm ET
💰 Cost: $197
📺 Where: Live via Zoom (Replay included)
💡 What You Get: 3-hours live with Joli + Companion Guide + Repeatable Process
This is more than a workshop. It’s a reset button.
🔗 Register Now
