Ready for polyamory?Ā Ethical non-monogamy?Ā Creative monogamy?Ā
I'm Dr. Joli Hamilton, The Relationship Coach Who Colors Outside the Lines. I'll show you how to get the freedom, deep security, and sexual fulfillment you want in your relationshipā€¦ Even if you're scared.
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Compersion- the Opposite of Jealousy
Jealousy is terrifying.
But I study jealousy as a scholar and I've got data that shows jealousy can be an asset -yes, really- if we learn how to work with it.
Playing with Fire Podcast: non-monogamy & individuation
with Dr. Joli & Ken Hamilton
Why polyamory?
My most common question: "Why are you polyamorous?" Joli studies consensual non-monogamy as a research psychologist but it's also an important part of our personal relationship design. We are talking about what polyamory is, why it works for us, and how it feels to put your heart in someone's hand without the rules of monogamy.
Consensual non-monogamy isn't the right fit for everyone, monogamy is a great choice for lots of people. But, if you're curious about what it looks like from the inside, have a listen.
Choosing an individuation relationship with our without your partner
Do you want to grow into the most authentic version of your Self that you can be? The good news is that you get to choose that, and all you need is within reach right now. Typically, individuation is seen as a solo activity, a deep inner journey that often comes with an image of the hermit. But we've found that relational individuation is another VERY fruitful option. This week we are talking about what steps you can take to engage fully in your journey whether your life partner/s is/are interested in psychological development or not.
How jealousy was the best thing that ever happened to me
Jealousy shows up differently for each of us, but it's a completely normal human experience. In this episode we talk about defining it, dancing with it, and five things we can do to use jealousy to strengthen and deepen our relationships. Joli shares exactly how she found herself studying jealousy every day for the past twelve years and the five-step process she uses to transform jealousy.
Relationship advice for people,
not cookie-cutters
Want to have better sex? Faster ways out of a fight? Easy to implement solutions for negotiating boundaries? Creative ideas for getting closure during tough times? Funny stories about Joli's early (and epic) failures trying to be non-monogamous without a clue?
I'm into action (that's what she said?), so email from me is worth opening.
