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Ready for polyamory? 

Ethical non-monogamy? Creative monogamy? I'm Dr. Joli Hamilton, The Relationship Coach Who Colors Outside the Lines. I'll show you how to get the freedom, deep security, and sexual fulfillment you want in your relationship… Even if you're scared.
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Ready for polyamory? 

Ethical non-monogamy? Creative monogamy? I'm Dr. Joli Hamilton, The Relationship Coach Who Colors Outside the Lines. I'll show you how to get the freedom, deep security, and sexual fulfillment you want in your relationship… Even if you're scared.
Get your FREE seat at the next virtual Salon

Your relationship can be both open and secure.

It is possible. I help people do it every.single.day.

Action-takers can have this life.

Intentionally designed love, whether it is creatively monogamous or consensually non-monogamous, doesn't mean sacrificing stability or depth of connection.

But the rules you learned about love won't get you where you want to go.

You need a masterful coach to guide you.

This is your most profound connection- you don't want to risk losing it just to get laid- you're an adult.

But you also don't want a walking-dead life just because someone else said buttoned-up was the only way to do love.

It's time to flip over tables and toss the rule books.

My signature process gives you the skills you need to take full creative power over your love life!

Take me to The Year Of Opening®

To make a truly remarkable love, you need a guide who has LIVED and STUDIED unconventional relationships. 

Creating a loving relationship that fulfills your desire for both stability and sexual adventure is not something your run-of-the-mill couple's counselor is prepared or qualified to do. 

Working with Joli is unlike any therapy you've done before.  

This is not just relationship work, this is your individuation journey...  becoming exactly who you were born to be, including as a lover. 

Individuation is the process of becoming completely yourself.   

Joli will transform your relationship into an individuation journey. 

How, exactly?

A Ph.D. in Jungian and archetypal psychology + certified sex educator = Magic Maker 

I've combined decades of lived experience with three psychology degrees, a sexuality certificate, and making jealousy my primary academic research topic.

It's been exciting (uh... yeah, and kinda rough!) 

You deserve a graceful, fun transition into the relationship you want. 

But you can skip the rough edges.

You don't have to put yourself through hell or read 400 psychology books to learn how to love.  

My fascination with complexity led me to develop a system for YOU to keep things simple! 

Let me guide you through my signature relational individuation process for the love and life you long for.

To make a truly remarkable love, you need a guide who has LIVED and STUDIED unconventional relationships. 

Creating a loving relationship that fulfills your desire for both stability and sexual adventure is not something your run-of-the-mill couple's counselor is prepared or qualified to do. 

Working with Joli is unlike any therapy you've done before.  

This is not just relationship work, this is your individuation journey...  becoming exactly who you were born to be, including as a lover. 

Individuation is the process of becoming completely yourself.   

Joli will transform your relationship into an individuation journey. 

How, exactly?

A Ph.D. in Jungian and archetypal psychology + certified sex educator = Magic Maker 

I've combined decades of lived experience with three psychology degrees, a sexuality certificate, and making jealousy my primary academic research topic.

It's been exciting (uh... yeah, and kinda rough!) 

You deserve a graceful, fun transition into the relationship you want. 

But you can skip the rough edges.

You don't have to put yourself through hell or read 400 psychology books to learn how to love.  

My fascination with complexity led me to develop a system for YOU to keep things simple! 

Let me guide you through my signature relational individuation process for the love and life you long for.

The Playing With Fire Podcast

Non-Monogamy & Individuation with Dr. Joli Hamilton & Ken Hamilton

Relationship advice for people, not cookie-cutters

Want to have better sex? Faster ways out of a fight?  Easy to implement solutions for negotiating boundaries? Creative ideas for getting closure during tough times? Funny stories about Joli's early (and epic) failures trying to be non-monogamous without a clue?

I'm into action (that's what she said?), so email from me is worth opening.