Some people come to open their relationship or learn how to relate well in the midst of change. 

Some come to live in closer relationship with psyche and pursue individuation through symbolic life.

Some are ready to commit to a year or more of the most intensive, personalized individuation work available  — Private Depth Psychological Coaching.

These paths are open to individuals, couples, married people, and polycules. Readiness is the only prerequisite.

Most of us were never taught how relationships actually work. Not in our families, not in school, not anywhere. 

Here's what most people are working with: a collection of inherited patterns, half-understood communication techniques from the internet (or really great books), and the sincere hope that love will sort the rest out.

It does not.

Year Of Opening is a psychoeducational group program designed to give you what you should have had all along.

This is a thoughtfully structured curriculum built over eighteen cohorts and refined through real couples/polycules, real individuals, and real relational complexity. The methods draw from my doctoral work in depth psychology, ongoing research, and advanced certifications in sex education, mental health counseling, neuro somatics, and Existential Kink. And it’s not therapy. 

This is skills-based relational education grounded in psychological depth. That means finally being someone who can:

• Understand your own relational patterns with accuracy
• Regulate your nervous system under pressure
• Negotiate with clarity and care
• Create agreements that reflect reality rather than fantasy
• Repair ruptures without spiraling
• Differentiate while staying connected
• Meet change without losing yourself

The Year Of Opening® is a re-imagining of your relationships and what’s possible in them.

The curriculum is layered and intentional. Concepts build on one another. Tools are practiced in real time. You're becoming someone who knows how to navigate relationships from the inside.

You're mentored by me and my anchor partner, Ken, who brings extensive scientific training and his questioning, privilege-conscious perspective committed to examining patriarchal conditioning while supporting others navigating similar challenges.

And you're learning alongside couples, individuals, and polycules navigating a wide range of structures and histories. Exposure to this diversity matters. You see how principles apply across different configurations, not just your own, and you learn from the experiences of everyone in your cohort.

I used to do this work 1:1. It was effective. But I discovered that this unique group setting is the magic key to the transformational results people just like you achieve in The Year Of Opening®. 

There is a reason this program has generated an extensive body of testimonials. People experience something rare here: a coherent relational framework that actually works in daily life. And support that lives on.

Year Of Opening is for people who are ready to stop improvising their relational life and start practicing it with skill within the container of a supportive, like-minded community.

Tuition: $274 per person per month or $3,000 per person paid in full 

Tuition includes direct access to me between meetings through Circle messaging.

After graduating, at no additional cost, you’ll get the following for as long as the program runs: 

• Ongoing access to community and YOO alumni support 
• Full access to course materials
• Community access begins when you enroll (even if your cohort has not yet started)

Each cohort is capped at 20 people. Applications for the next cohort are open now.

You can read Jung for years and still not know what to do on that ordinary Sunday morning when the same pattern shows up again.

Cohort after cohort of Individuation Alchemy has closed that gap between understanding and practice.

Individuation Alchemy is a small group mentorship devoted to Jungian individuation in lived, applied form.

This nine-month journey includes 34 classes and structured immersion in five core depth psychological practices.

Together we move through the four alchemical phases as outlined in my private Inner Alchemy work. Not as metaphor alone but as method.

The work is daily. And applied.

You'll become someone who recognizes projections as they form, works consciously with shadow, metabolizes desire, reads their own symbolic material, and participates actively and skillfully in their own development.

The aim is the cultivation of a person who knows how to engage their own psyche. Someone who can struggle consciously rather than suffer blindly. Someone who can live inside the tension of opposites without immediately trying to resolve it.

Someone who can embrace their own unique, dynamic wholeness.

This work is precise. It's demanding. It's also as playful as you make it… Because psyche has a sense of humor.

You'll have access to materials for as long as the program exists and direct messaging access to me between meetings.

Individuation Alchemy is for you if you want a disciplined relationship with your own depth, and you're ready to take responsibility for your participation in your growth. Said another way, this is for you if you're ready to stop trying to be someone, and start fully being who you really are.

 Tuition: $274 per month for nine months or $2,247 paid in full

You'll have access to materials for as long as the program exists and direct messaging access to me between meetings.

Capped at 20 people. Enrollment for the next cohort opens in January.

Private work is a minimum one-year commitment. It's designed for individuals, couples, and polycules who are ready for the most direct, customized, and sustained individuation work available.

The goals overlap with Year Of Opening. You'll still be developing the capacity to regulate, negotiate, repair, differentiate, and create agreements that hold under pressure…

The difference is depth, intensity, and customization.

We're getting to the root of why the same patterns keep winning, so that understanding them actually changes them.

This means examining how projection, attachment history, desire, power, and shadow operate inside your specific relational system (whether you’re in romantic relationships or not), at a level of depth that only one-on-one work makes possible.

The structure adapts to your relational reality.

If you're a couple, we work the dyad and the individuals within it. If you're a polycule, we work the system as a living organism, including the fault lines and alliances that naturally arise. Sessions include both joint/group meetings and individual meetings as needed.

Between sessions, you have direct access to me through email and private messaging. You're expected to use it. This is active, participatory mentorship, not an hour a week that exists in isolation.

Private clients are strongly encouraged to join a Year Of Opening cohort, and may do so at no additional cost. The group container strengthens the private work. It gives you language, shared frameworks, and a community of others practicing relational maturity. The private space then allows us to apply those tools with surgical precision to your particular dynamics.

This isn't casual work. It requires honesty, stamina, and a willingness to see clearly what's happening between you.

This path is for individuals, couples, and polycules who are serious about the long arc of their relational life and want sustained, direct guidance as they build something durable.

Investment: $30,000 for one year of individual coaching, $35,000 for a dyad, $40,000 for a triad, etc.

If you want relational tools, community, and structured skill building inside a rigorous container, choose Year Of Opening.

If you want a disciplined, practical immersion in depth psychological practice and symbolic life, choose Individuation Alchemy.

If you want highly personalized, sustained work devoted to relational individuation, choose Private Depth Psychological Coaching.

Each path stands on its own. Some people begin in group work and later move into private mentorship. Some never do.

There's no hierarchy here, only fit.

All three are rooted in devotion to psyche. All three require your participation. All three are for people who suspect they're only partially alive to themselves...

You know where you belong.