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BUT FIRST… 

 

I’m about to reveal how to get a

REAL-TIME, REAL-LIFE 

BREAKTHROUGH 

in your relationship 

(the one you’re dying for)

 

Even if you’re worried about rocking the boat, ruining what you have, or getting pushback from your partner

 

If you want to experience the connection, communication, passion, sizzling sex and explosion of power (for all partners) you’ve been aching for… 

 

Keep reading. 

 

This will be the most important letter you’ve ever read. 

 

I get it, I’ve been where you are (but I had 7 kids). And I destroyed a marriage and two businesses trying to sort this out for myself. 

 

I’ve found the solution, it worked for me and I’ve watched it transform the lives of my clients. I’m sharing it with you because I want to save you the torment of doing it all wrong.

 

But this might not be for you 

 

Listen, I know what I’m talking about. I’m a doctor ;) 

I'm also a best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and AASECT certified sex educator. 

 

I make the biggest difference as a sought-after relationship coach for ambitious rule-breakers and the people who love them. I guide entrepreneurial & C-suite couples to create relationships that thrill and delight them, providing security and variety at the same time.  

 

I can definitely help you, like I’ve helped my clients.

 

But I have a unique approach to breakthroughs in relationships, in the bedroom, and in business (they are related, and you can tell your partner I said so). It’s not for everyone. 

 

Warning: I’m NOT your mother’s therapist. 

In fact, I’m not a therapist at all. 

 

As a Jungian-trained depth psychologist, I've spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. 

 

I believe, because I’ve witnessed it with my clients and students, and experienced it myself, that if you’re

 

• Tired of settling
• Tired of not being heard
• Tired of feeling alone

 

Or if... 

 

• You miss the togetherness and connection you once had with your partner 
• You miss the passion 
• Or you’ve never had the level of passion you have always wanted in your relationship 
• You want MORE from your partner 
• But you’re worried (about the relationship, the potential impact on the kids if you rock the boat) 
• You don’t want to ruin what you have now, but you know YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING… Or it might end... 

 

Badly.

 

You’re right. You DO need to do something. 

 

SOMETHING DIFFERENT.

 

Welcome to a radically different approach to getting what you want. 

 

I love helping people create partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves. No more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.

 

It will require courage. It will require honesty. It will require IMAGINATION. In good news, it does not require your partner (although that’s fun, too). 

 

Unconventional paths require expert guides OR the willingness to fuxk up a lot of your life to finally get somewhere. I suggest the expert guide approach. That’s why I’m here. 

 

So with that understood ... let me jump right in and show you ...

 

How to GET WHAT YOU WANT 

from your relationship 

(yes, the one you’re in now)

and why what you’re doing isn’t working

Where you WON’T FIND your breakthrough  

 

 1.You won’t find your breakthrough by talking about your B.S. with a well-meaning therapist.  I love a great therapy session as much as the next person. But, you’ve probably tried that. And it may not have gone well for one or both of you. 

 

Usually, one person feels blamed or shamed. Then they want nothing to do with it. 

 

According to some research, many marriages are worse two years after completing therapy. And up to 38% of couples are divorced four years later. Not exactly your goal, am I right? 

 

Therapy is conventional. You need something UNconventional. You need something DESIGNED to create a BREAKTHROUGH. 

 

Something proven, something modern, something that gets the kind of results YOU WANT. Keep reading, because I have something special for you below. 

 

 2, You won’t find it in a book. You’ve read the books, haven’t you? They can help. And using the packet I just sent you, you will dramatically increase the quality of your conversations, and it will cause even the most wary of partners to trust that you’re in it for both of you. 

 

But you still need to BREAK THROUGH the barriers that are keeping you from the FULL expression of who you are as individuals and as a couple. 

 

You’re dealing with real, live human beings in your relationship. You need someone to HEAR you, your desires, and your vision for your relationship. You need someone to hear your objections, your tricky spots, and concerns. Can’t happen with a book.

 

 3. You won’t find it in a podcast, an app, or TED talk (although I gave one that got some attention). You need a personalized plan for success. A plan that takes into account who YOU are and who your partner is. And you need accountability. 

 

If you’re going to take a quantum leap past what isn’t working, into a new reality full of possibilities that inspire you AND your partner… well… you need a BREAKTHROUGH. 

 

break·through

/ˈbrākˌTHro͞o/

a sudden, dramatic, act or instance of removing or surpassing an obstruction or restriction; the overcoming of a stalemate

What will give you access 

to a REAL BREAKTHROUGH

 

 1. Get to the bottom of the unworkability, fast. Is it power dynamics? Is it that agreements (spoken or unspoken) are not being met? Rules (spoken or unspoken) that are being broken? Is unrecognized jealousy running your relationship? Is workaholism taking over? Is there a desire mismatch? You have to identify the barriers to break through them. 

 

 2. You gotta acknowledge the D word. You’ve got a life together. And you have separate lives. When one person is turning too much of their attention to the “separate life” (ie: work, kids) there’s a problem. 

 

It’s not what you think it is. 

 

Work isn’t that busy or important. The kids aren’t that busy or important. 

 

It’s called deep dissatisfaction. 

 

Could be in the partnership. Could be in bed. Could be in BOTH. 

 

Maybe you’re both doing the “busy with my separate life” thing. 

 

Double deep dissatisfaction. 

 

It can be remedied, but first it has to be acknowledged. Once it’s acknowledged, things can get FUN. That might sound impossible from where you’re sitting right now, but I promise it’s possible for you. Yes, YOU. And your partner, too. 

 

 3. Be willing to talk about things that make you wildly uncomfortable. One place 99% of people don’t look for breakthrough insights is to their sexual desires and fantasies. 

 

Our fantasies can tell us a lot about what we’re missing and how to get what we want -- not just in the bedroom but in our every day life. Your sexual desires fantasies are like tea leaves. If you know how to read them, they tell a story. And they tell you exactly what to do to get what you want. 

 

Not feeling very sexual lately? Bored in the bedroom? These things also tell a story we want to pay attention to. 

 

In order to feel safe with this kind of vulnerable or even “kinky” discussion, you need to feel safe and secure. That can happen quickly when you do it right. 

 

It’s time to talk dirty ;)  

 

 4. You have to start. I know it feels like there isn’t enough time. Or it’s impossible to find “the right” time to start the conversation. I know your partner isn’t into “this kind of thing” the way you are (there is always one partner who is more interested or able to seek a solution, and that’s you right now). I know you’re worried about rocking the boat. 

 

But you’ve got to START the conversation. 

 

You may be starting “this conversation” again, after failed attempts, I get that too. But it’s false… 

 

You’ve never had THIS KIND of conversation with your partner. 

 

And it’s the only way to the other side. 

 

I strongly recommend you start this new conversation with the support of someone who knows what they’re doing. 

 

Because I know you’re not fulfilled with what you have now. And I know you don’t want to ruin what you have to get what you want. 

 

Here’s HOW to get what you want 

 

If you hear yourself in the words on this page, I have an exclusive opportunity for you today. And I do mean TODAY. I mean RIGHT NOW. 

 

This is the ONLY time you’ll get the chance to work with me in this capacity at this MASSIVELY DISCOUNTED price point. 

 

Together we will work through my signature breakthrough process, Creative Monogamy (or Non-Monogamy, if you so choose) Design, which is the single reason I went from divorced to almost-divorced-again and burning two businesses to the ground... to more alive and in love than ever before. 

 

Here’s what you can expect

 

• Getting clear on the barriers to what you want 
• Getting you and your partner(s) on the same page from wherever you are today. 
• Establish the key relationship habits that make it possible to handle the inevitable bumps in the road 
• Make relationship agreements without trapping each other under the weight of iron-fisted rules.
• Create a game plan specifically designed to fit you and your life

 

But you know what you’ll really love? You’ll finally get all of this… 

 

• Be heard, be listened-to. We’ll bridge that communication gap once and for all!  
• Plus! How to get your partner to TALK about your relationship
• The connection and togetherness you crave from your partner
• Entice your partner to participate in an equal partnership (100%/100%) 
• Secure commitment to co-creation, and to resolving the difficulties you may be facing
• Heal from betrayal (or the threat of betrayal, real or perceived) 
• Establish relationship rules that create security and freedom 
• Have fun again 
• Remember who you are, who they are, and why you want each other 
• Experience your full power (and your partner’s) 
• Expand your imagination (and your partner’s) 

 

To acknowledge you for taking action on what matters most to you today, I am offering you the chance to get the exclusive:

 

“GET WHAT YOU WANT” 1:1

RELATIONSHIP BREAKTHROUGH SESSION

How to create the relationship 

you’ve ALWAYS WANTED 

out of whatever you have NOW

 

PLUS a Bonus Strategic Accountability Session 

so you can be sure you’re both getting what you want!

 

RIGHT NOW for only $397

 

This is the ONLY time you’ll have access to this work at this price point (it’s usually $1994 for these two sessions-- so you get a savings of $1597 when you book your spot now).

 

• You can do this alone OR with your partner. Either will work for you! One person can change the whole system.

 

• You’ll do the work 1:1 (or 2:1, if your partner joins us) with me. This is 100% private, confidential work.  

 

• It’s VIRTUAL (phone/Zoom) so we can work together no matter where you are in the world.

 

You can have it all for $397. 

 

But only right here on this page, right now. So book your session below now! 

 

Why would I do this? 

 

Simple.

Because YOU are an action-taker. And action-takers GET RESULTS. My reputation is what it is because my clients get results. You’ve already separated yourself from 99% of people by taking action. This means I can pretty much guarantee you will maintain my reputation by getting results from our work together. 

 

Plus, I’ve got a LOT more for you. And I’m betting you’ll want to do more together. So this is my investment in our future work together. 

 

Pretty straightforward.  

 

Let’s face it, you’ve tried other things and they haven’t worked or you wouldn’t be reading this right now. 

 

You know you need to have conversations you haven’t had before. And you know you need someone to guide you in those conversations. 

 

Here’s what a few people have said about my guidance:

No, thanks. Take me to Dr. Joli’s website

 

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter. I look forward to breaking through to the other side with you soon!  

 P.S. This is TRULY a one-time opportunity. You can book a breakthrough session on my website right now for $997 (no bonus accountability session) or you can grab BOTH now for $397. Again that’s a savings of $1597. 

 

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