Individuation doesn't just happen.

It requires action. 

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Are you ready to live a life on your unique individuation path?

Becoming exactly who you are meant to be and living a life you actively create through deep introspection and thrilling shifts in your consciousness?

 

Not everyone is, and that's okay.

If you're feeling cozy, sated, and complete in your life as is, thanks for stopping by, but this isn't for you right now, please close this page.

 

 

 

 

You're still here.

 

Awesome, let's talk!

 

 

Do you find yourself circling around questions like...

 

What is my purpose?

 

Why does everything feel so.... MUCH?

 

Why don't I fit in with the people I used to totally enjoy?

 

I keep getting the nudge from inside that I need more... but wtf is more what does that mean?

 

 

 

Yeah... I've been where you are. I'm so glad you're here.

I've actually never been so excited to write a web page as I am at this moment.

 

 

 

For years I’ve been working with people on their individuation journeys.

 

Individuation, is the weird, winding road of becoming truly yourself, knowing your deepest truths, and accessing your whole Self… releasing what isn't yours to hold, reclaiming the parts of you that were abandoned long ago.

 

It's amazing, but it's a JOURNEY and it’s slippery. 

 

I love offering individuation guidance privately, it is the work that lights up my soul. It’s pricey ($30k/year) and it’s worth it AND I finally figured out a way to make this work super-affordable. ($249/month!!!!)

 

I’ve been feeling the call to bring individuation support to you in a new way that will bring the power of community into your individuation process. 

 

This is integral–Jung said so himself, but most Jungians conveniently ignore this and try to make everything about their own, solitary interiority.  They love the image of the hermit off "doing his work" alone... unbothered...disconnected from much of life in an unrealistic (and profoundly anti-social) way. He also doesn't have to deal with the mess of other people.

 

I’m not having it. That image is tired and outdated and unsuited for the modern psyche of most people. 

 

Relational individuation is the way forward. That means we need each other. Let's do this together.

And Papa-Jung agrees with me:

 

Life makes no sense if completely detached, we are only complete in community…there is no possibility of individuation on the top of Mount Everest where you are sure that nobody will ever bother you. Individuation always means relationship. 

~ C. G. Jung, Visions: Notes of the Seminar Given 1930-1934, Vol II

 

soooooo....

 

 

The Individuation Alchemy Mentorship Group is ready for you!

 

 

But first, a warning:

 

- If you’re satisfied with everything in life the way it is–this is not the place for you.

- If you’re happy for your life’s purpose to remain a mystery–do not join us.

- If you’re looking for someone to soothe you into a comfortably numb state–absolutely do not click the link below.

 

We’re diving into the depths, together. 

(If we've never met and you're wondering why you should trust me to guide you on this adventure, head down to the bottom of the page***)

 

 

The Individuation Alchemy cohort is forming now–one time. 

 

We start January 7th, 2025. 

 

There won’t be another cohort until at least 2026–if ever.

 

 

~~~STOP TALKING, JOLI, AND SIGN ME UP!~~~

 

Hold your horses---we need to talk first: 

Get on my call sheet right away >>>

 

 

The group is capped at 20 people and I’m only inviting people I trust into our little circle.

Bottom line: this is special, this is my soul’s work, and I want you with me!

 

The investment is 249/month. I wanted this to be the most accessible price I could possibly swing. It will never be close to this low again. 

 

Details, I want details!!!

 

What are we doing, exactly?

 

We are gathering weekly for 1 hour on Tuesdays at 8 pm ET 44 times over the year.

 

-- You'll be learning the language of depth psychology (it’s basically magic!)

 

-- You'll be playing with the best tools for exploring your soul: psychological alchemy, dreamwork, active imagination, mythologems, orgasmic imagination, intuitive knowing practices, symbolic interaction experiences... and more!

 

-- I will expertly guide you through learning the time-tested techniques of individuation and we'll all be sharing our process, exponentially amplifying our growth in a strong container of compassionate community. 

 

 

These tools are how I’ve transformed my life.

 

They will work for you too.

 

 

I grew up in an abusive, impoverished home with parents who were doing the best they could… but it didn’t go well.

 

I was born to take care of others first myself last.

That was the "correct" role for a girl child in my family.

Serve and stay small.

 

At 37 years old I’d already been trying to heal myself for decades. (I was the kid reading the psychology section of the adult library at 9 years old.) I made some headway but it was slow and I struggled to move away from the scripts my parents instilled.

 

 

Then midlife cracked me open.

 

It does that.

 

 

At some point, your deepest self whispers:

NO. MORE. BULLSHIT. 

 

 

 

My soul was no longer willing to hide in the corner. 

 

 

How is midlife cracking you open?

 

--It might be a gnawing sense of ennui that feels more numb every day.

 

--Or it might be a huge WTF–is this all life is?

 

--Or you may feel like you’ve been wandering around without a map while other people seem to know what to do next.

 

--Or maybe you did everything on your life list and… good news… you’re not dead yet.

 

Those are all clear signs that you are being called to your individuation.

 

Let's talk today and find the trailhead for your individuation path BOOK YOUR FREE CALL NOW >>> 

 

 

With love,

Joli

 

 

 

Um... you're still reading?

 

We start January 7th... click that link NOW!!! There's no other cohort, no other shot at this, I have no idea if I'll ever run it again because I'm on my own individuation path--if you're called, now's the time.

 

 

***If a friend sent you this special link, and we've never met: Hi, I'm glad you're here!

 

Now, why should you trust me with all this psychological growth stuff?

 

First, I ask that you trust yourself most of all. If this calls you, I'm honored to get a chance to talk with you further. 

 

Now, what about the credentials? I have a PhD in Jungian and Archetypal psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute, two master's degrees, one in depth psychology and one in mental health counseling, I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Educator, and I hold a certification in Neuro-Somatic Intelligence coaching and another in Existential Kink coaching. I've completed two personal Jungian analyses and I've been doing personal growth work intensively for over two decades. I'm also a parent to seven children who are now mostly grown--they have been my most profound teachers of patience and depth. I'm also a best-selling author, relationship expert, life-long entrepreneur, and a public speaker with a TEDx talk on compersion and over 200 podcast appearances over the past three years. 

 

Phew--that's enough about my credentials to last a lifetime. But I want you to know I take your psychological development as seriously as I take my own. I'd be honored to talk with you about what individuation work looks like.

Our individuation paths are unique, but the process of opening to individuation is held tenderly in my world.