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MIDLIFE CRACKED ME (OPEN). 

“What is my purpose?”  “Why does everything feel so.... MUCH?”  “Why don't I fit in with the people I used to totally enjoy?”  “I know I need more... but wtf does more mean?”

I’ve been there. And I know something for sure: 

You can discover your own answers — and live a life you actively create. 

It requires one thing nobody is talking about:    

Relational Individuation. 

If you’re ready to become exactly who you’re meant to be through deep introspection and thrilling shifts in your consciousness (not everyone is)… 

I can show you how. I can make it easier. And I’m so glad you’re here. 

Whether you’re 28 or 82, individuation of any kind doesn't just happen… 

It requires smart, leveraged, meaningful, and effective action. 

Here’s what I mean… 

You probably already know I’m a Jungian Depth Psychologist. I have a PhD in what it is to be all of the parts of a Self. 

For years, I’ve been guiding people privately on their individuation journeys for $30,000 (worth it, and I’ve found a way to make it $274/mo — see below!). 

My credentials matter here for one BIG reason…

Individuation is a weird, winding, slippery road of releasing what isn't yours to hold, reclaiming the parts of you that were abandoned long ago, and becoming your true, deepest, whole Self… 

It's amazing. But it's a JOURNEY… 

The right guide can help you do it better, deeper, faster, giving you tools and life-long results with significantly less ontological carnage (no exaggeration) than trying to do it on your own.  

Plus, you’ve already tried that haphazard (not to mention expensive) on-your-own thing, haven’t you? 

That’s good news because it means you’ve never had a true guide and you’ve also never done THIS: 

The right community. The right community brings unparalleled power and support (because you will want to give up on yourself, and we won’t let you) which is what takes Individuation to a whole new level… the level of Relational Individuation. 

Jung said it himself — community is integral to individuation. 

But most Jungians conveniently ignore this and try to make everything about their own, solitary interiority. They love the image of the hermit off "doing his work" alone... unbothered… disconnected from the messes of other people in an unrealistic (and anti-social) way. 

I’m not having it. That image is tired and outdated, and unsuited for the modern psyche of most people I’d want anything to do with. 

And Papa-Jung agrees with me:

Life makes no sense if completely detached, we are only complete in community…there is no possibility of individuation on the top of Mount Everest where you are sure that nobody will ever bother you. Individuation always means relationship. 

~ C. G. Jung, Visions: Notes of the Seminar Given 1930-1934, Vol II

Relational Individuation is the way forward. This means we need each other. Let's do this together.

I’m bringing you everything you need to milk this “midlife” thing — or whatever form it’s taking for you — for all it’s worth: An expert guide. A hand-selected community. And the best individuation tools on the planet. 

I’ve already proven this format to be more effective than I could have imagined.

Now, the moment you’ve been waiting for… 

The Individuation Alchemy Mentorship Group is ready for you!

But first, a warning:

— If you’re satisfied with everything in life the way it is — this is not the place for you.

— If you’re happy for your life’s purpose to remain a mystery — do not join us.

— If you’re looking for someone to soothe you into a comfortably numb state — absolutely do not click the link below.

We’re diving into the depths, together. This is big. 

(If we've never met and you're wondering why, aside from what I’ve already shared, you should trust me to guide you on this adventure, head down to the bottom of the page***)

The Individuation Alchemy cohort is forming now — and I can’t guarantee I’ll ever do this again. 

We start January 7th, 2026. 

There won’t be another cohort until at least 2027 — if ever. I’m always here doing this work, but I’m changing things all the time in terms of how and when they’re offered. 

~~~ STOP TALKING, JOLI, AND SIGN ME UP! ~~~

Hold your horses — we need to talk first: 

Get on my call sheet right away >>>

The group will be capped for best results, and I’m only inviting people I trust into our little circle.

This is special. 

The investment is 274/month. I wanted this to be the most accessible price I could possibly swing. It will never be close to this low again. 

~~~ DETAILS, I WANT DETAILS!!! ~~~

What are we doing, exactly?

We are gathering weekly for 1 hour on Tuesdays at 8 pm ET 34 times over the year.

— You'll be learning the language of depth psychology (it’s basically magic!)

— You'll get the best tools for exploring your soul: psychological alchemy, dreamwork, active imagination, mythologems, orgasmic imagination, intuitive knowing practices, symbolic interaction experiences... and more! These tools WORK. They dismantle even the most complicated internal stuff so you can rebuild stuff that serves you. 

— I will expertly guide you through learning the time-tested techniques of individuation. And we'll all be sharing our process, exponentially amplifying our growth in a strong container of compassionate community. 

These tools are how I’ve transformed my life.

They will work for you, too, when you use them in this program. 

Book my call now >>>

Can I tell you a story? 

I grew up in an abusive, impoverished home with parents who were doing the best they could… but it didn’t go well.

I was born to take care of others first, myself last.

That was the "correct" role for a girl child in my family… 

Serve and stay small.

At 37 years old, I’d already been trying to heal myself for decades. (I was the kid reading the psychology section of the adult library at 9 years old.) I made some headway. But it was slow. And I struggled to move away from the scripts my parents instilled.

Then, as mentioned, midlife cracked me open.

It does that.

At some point, your deepest self whispers: NO. MORE. BULLSHIT. 

My soul was no longer willing to hide in the corner. 

How is midlife cracking you open?

— It might be a gnawing sense of ennui that feels more numb every day.

— Or it might be a huge WTF–is this all life is?

— Or you may feel like you’ve been wandering around without a map while other people seem to know exactly how to get exactly where they want to be, from their already pretty great starting point, because apparently they’ve had a map the whole time. 

— Or maybe you did everything on your life list and… good news… you’re not dead yet. But also, what next? 

Those are all clear signs that you are being called to your individuation. And this is the way to do it, my friend. This is the way. 

Let's talk and find the trailhead for your individuation path 

>>>BOOK YOUR FREE CALL NOW 

I can’t wait to see what you create! 

With love,

Joli

Um... you're still reading?

We start January 7th... click that link NOW!!! There's no other cohort, no other shot at this, I have no idea if I'll ever run it again because I'm on my own individuation path — if you're called, now's the time.

***If a friend sent you this special link, and we've never met: Hi, I'm glad you're here!

Now, why should you trust me with all this psychological growth stuff?

First, I ask that you trust yourself most of all. If this calls you, I'm honored to get a chance to talk with you further. 

Now, what about the credentials? I have a PhD in Jungian and Archetypal psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute, two master's degrees, one in depth psychology and one in mental health counseling, I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Educator, and I hold a certification in Neuro-Somatic Intelligence coaching and another in Existential Kink coaching. I've completed two personal Jungian analyses and I've been doing personal growth work intensively for over two decades. I'm also a parent to seven children who are now mostly grown — they have been my most profound teachers of patience and depth. I'm also a best-selling author, relationship expert, life-long entrepreneur, and a public speaker with a TEDx talk on compersion and over 200 podcast appearances over the past three years. 

Phew — that's enough about my credentials to last a lifetime. But I want you to know I take your psychological development as seriously as I take my own. I'd be honored to talk with you about what individuation work looks like.

Relational Individuation offers you the unique opportunity to take this journey in a loving, supportive container that grows you bigger than you ever thought possible. 

Our individuation paths are unique. This container allows for every aspect of who you are and how your path — to whole, reclaimed Self — unfolds.